Sunday, November 29, 2015

Christmas is about the Christ

Dear Sisters,
I'm sending my love to each of you as we approach this wonderful time of year!

My sweet mother-in-law gave me a beautiful gift this year.  She made a “Savior” tree with all his different titles on ornaments for us to hang on the tree.  As we hung them, we said each name out loud and there was such a special spirit in the room.  
I was grateful for her thoughtful gift and tender reminder of the “reason for the season.” 

“Without Christ there would be no Christmas, and without Christ there can be no fulness of joy.” (Ezra Taft Benson)

I would encourage each of you to make an effort to make this a Christ-centered Christmas. 

“It is usually something small—we read a verse of scripture, we hear a sacred carol and really listen to its words, or we witness a sincere expression of love. In one way or another, the Spirit touches our hearts, and we see that Christmas, in its essence, is much more sturdy and enduring than the many minor things of life [that] we too often use to adorn it.
“We realize in these precious moments what we feel and know in our heart—that Christmas is about the Christ.” (Elder Uchtdorf)

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As we remember our Savior this season, our testimonies will be strengthened and I think the spirit will abide in our homes and hearts. 
Wishing you a wonderful week!
Sincerely,
Lydia

Tuesday, November 24, 2015

The Power of Forgiveness

Dear Sisters,
This last week, I joined Seth’s kindergarten class for a "feast".  I was deeply touched as I heard the story of Squanto.  I’m sure I’ve heard it before, but this time, I was truly inspired by the underlying message of forgiveness.

I thought I would just recap Squanto’s story from what I researched in Wikipedia and a couple other site:

As a young Indian boy, Squanto was taught how to hunt, fish, and survive with his people.  He was captured by white men and taken back to Europe where he was taught to speak English with the intent of making him an interpreter for future voyages.  After he had learned the language, he returned to America on a ship headed back to see his people, but once again he was captured by cruel men who put him and many of his friends in chains to be sold as slaves in Spain.  Many of his friends died on the awful journey.  When they finally arrived, he was purchased by monks who nursed him back to health and taught him about Jesus Christ.  When he was well, they arranged for his return to his family and people in America.  He attempted the journey, but was once again sent back to England. 

After a couple years, he was at last permitted to make the voyage, but upon his arrival to the New World, he found out that a plague of smallpox, brought by the white men, had killed his entire village and most of the coastal Indian tribes as well.  His heart was broken and he wandered for some time.  He settled in an Indian village nearby. 

After a time, he discovered another ship sailed in and was settling near his old village.  He did not go to greet them, but watched them for some time.  They were peaceful pilgrims that came as families to escape religious persecution. They came in early winter and were quickly running short on supplies.  Squanto decided to help these people and adopt them as his own.  They were amazed to hear him speak their language, and he taught them how to survive off the land, plant corn, and gather food.  

After their bounty that year, they held a gratitude feast to thank their God for deliverance in the new land, and to show appreciate for sending Squanto to be their guide and save them from starvation.

Wasn’t Squanto a powerful example of forgiveness?  Surely he would be justified to have feelings of anger and bitterness towards the white men who made him a slave and destroyed his people, but instead, he set his feelings aside and became a great blessing to the pilgrims and those early settlers of this great nation.

President Brigham Young once compared being offended to a poisonous snakebite.

He said that “there are two courses of action to follow when one is bitten by a rattlesnake. One may, in anger, fear, or vengefulness, pursue the creature and kill it. Or he may make full haste to get the venom out of his system.” He said, “If we pursue the latter course we will likely survive, but if we attempt to follow the former, we may not be around long enough to finish it.”
Elder David E. Sorensen suggests that, “When we forgive others, it frees us to choose how we will live our own lives. Forgiveness means that problems of the past no longer dictate our destinies, and we can focus on the future with God’s love in our hearts.

I testify that there is great power in forgiveness.  I have seen it work in my own life and I know that applying the atonement can allow you to forgive someone even when it is very difficult.

Perhaps, as you gather with family or loved ones this thanksgiving, you may see an opportunity to forgive and allow God’s love to fill your heart, instead of bitterness.


Sincerely,
Lydia

Sunday, November 15, 2015

This Life is the Time...

Dear Sisters-
I had such a neat opportunity to attend a Leadership Training Meeting yesterday, where I was taught by Elder Nelson's wife, and some other amazing women.  I had each of you on my mind, as I pondered how I could better serve you.  I thought it was interesting that much of what was said revolved around the temple and that we are in the last days.

Sis. Nelson encouraged us to think about what she referred to as our "pre-mortal commitments," and consider what we are busy doing.  She urged us to filter out the time-wasters.  We don't want to look back on this earth life thinking, "Oh, I was suppose to be doing that?"  If we are prayerful, I feel certain the Holy Ghost can direct us to the meaningful things we should be doing.


Alma 34 comes to mind:
 32 For behold, this life is the time for men to prepare to meet God; yea, behold the day of this life is the day for men to perform their labors.
 33 And now, as I said unto you before, as ye have had so many witnesses, therefore, I beseech of you that ye do not procrastinate the day of your repentance until the end; for after this day of life, which is given us to prepare for eternity, behold, if we do not improve our time while in this life, then cometh the night of darkness wherein there can be no labor performed.
 34 Ye cannot say, when ye are brought to that awful crisis, that I will repent, that I will return to my God. Nay, ye cannot say this; for that same spirit which doth possess your bodies at the time that ye go out of this life, that same spirit will have power to possess your body in that eternal world.
We talked a lot about missionary work in our meetings today, I feel sure that there truly is a "hastening of the work" taking place right now.
I hope that we can all do our part to assist the Lord in building His Kingdom and preparing for His second coming.

Wishing you a wonderful week!
Sincerely,
Lydia

Sunday, November 8, 2015

Thankful in Our Circumstances

Dear Sisters,
Perhaps it is the time of year, but my thoughts are bursting with gratitude today.  I sat in sacrament meeting and just felt happy.  Bro. and Sis. Larsen gave such up-beat talks about their mission experiences, and the Hanamaikai’s musical number was beautiful, and Sis. Garner had my boys completely captivated as she colored a rainbow dinosaur for them, and I just felt thankful to have such a wonderful place to go to worship and learn, with people I love.  This gospel makes me so happy.  

My heart is so full of gratitude for each of you.  You touch my life daily!  I am so grateful for your visiting teaching efforts and all you do to strengthen and serve the sisters in our ward!  You are special, remarkable women, and I love you!
“As disciples of Christ, we are commanded to “thank the Lord [our] God in all things,”1 to “sing unto the Lord with thanksgiving,”2 and to “let [our] heart be full of thanks unto God.”3
Why does God command us to be grateful?
All of His commandments are given to make blessings available to us. Commandments are opportunities to exercise our agency and to receive blessings. Our loving Heavenly Father knows that choosing to develop a spirit of gratitude will bring us true joy and great happiness.
Could I suggest that we see gratitude as a disposition, a way of life that stands independent of our current situation? In other words, I’m suggesting that instead of being thankful for things, we focus on being thankful in our circumstances—whatever they may be.” 
(Elder Uchtdorf)
 
(Recognize the blessings that are raining down on your and enjoy them with thanks.)

Let’s all try to develop an attitude of gratitude this week, even during any difficult circumstances.  I feel sure we will be blessed for it and find greater joy.
Sincerely,
Lydia

Monday, November 2, 2015

Love in Action...

Dear Sisters,

Isn’t it wonderful to be part of this amazing “Worldwide Circle of Sisterhood"?!  I have just been pondering on Kathy Hughes’ powerful lesson yesterday, and have felt so richly blessed to be a part of this Relief Society organization.  Our motto “Charity Never Faileth” is such an inspiring theme to live by.  
It makes me think of you...




I loved President Monson’s quote on charity toward the end of the lesson:

“I have in mind the charity that manifests itself when we are tolerant of others and lenient toward their actions, the kind of charity that forgives, the kind of charity that is patient.
“I have in mind the charity that impels us to be sympathetic, compassionate, and merciful, not only in times of sickness and affliction and distress but also in times of weakness or error on the part of others.
“There is a serious need for the charity that gives attention to those who are unnoticed, hope to those who are discouraged, aid to those who are afflicted. True charity is love in action. The need for charity is everywhere.”
Isn’t that a beautiful reminder?  I think most of us are considerably compassionate when physical needs arise, but there is a tremendous need for tolerance, patience, and forgiveness when someone messes up.  It is so good for us to look beyond ourselves and “expand our sphere of influence”.  As we do, I feel confident that our divine nature, who we truly are, will become clearer to us.

“Looking out through a window, not just into a mirror, allows us to see ourselves as His.” (Rosemary M. Wixom)

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Reach out to the people around you.  Take a moment to exercise charity—“love in action”, and make contact with those you visit teach this week.  I really believe that you woman can “change the world.”  You have certainly made mine better!  I love you dearly for it!  Hope you have a lovely week.

Sincerely,
Lydia